Sister Carol F. McConkie: Live According to the Words of the Prophets

A lot of the talks in this session seem to touch on the importance of following the prophets and apostles.  I know that I am far, far, far, from perfect, but I do strive to follow the council sent by God through his chosen servants. My prayer, for me and for you, is to become a better disciple by more consistently and immediately acting on this council.

Sister Carol F. McConkie: Live According to the Words of the Prophets

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During her talk, Sister McConkie brought up the story from the bible when the destitue widow woman was counciled by the Prophet Elijah to provide him with a meal. For most of us this wouldn't be a big deal, but for the widow woman that one meal was everything. It was literarly all the food that she had for herself and her young child.

This story amazes me. I have to admit that I don't know if I would have the faith to obey as that sister did. She had nothing to give and was expecting to die. I suppose that being that close to an expected death would change my perspective, but she also had a child to care for. I do not have children of my own so I cannot completely understand the protective instinct that comes with parenthood, but I've had hints of this feeling with my niece and nephew, and even with my students. I can't imagine taking life sustaining food away from a starving child.

As I said before, heavenly council doesn't always make sense. The widow woman chose the right course when she obeyed Elijah's council and shared the litle she had. She saved herself and her child with her faith. Such faith is truly amazing. While I never want to be presented with that particular dilema, I do hope to have the same faith with the dilemas I will face.

I will end with this quote from Sister McConkie's talk: "we heed prophetic word even when it may seem unreasonable, inconvenient, and uncomfortable. According to the world's standards, following the prophet may be unpopular, politically incorrect, or socially unacceptable. But following the prophet is always right."

Thank you for your council, Sister McConkie.

Elder Russel M. Nelson: Sustaining the Prophets

I'm not feeling great tonight. I seem to be coming down with some kind of head cold. So, I'll keep it simple and pray that my words make sense.

Elder Russel M. Nelson: Sustaining the Prophets

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In his talk, Elder Nelson quoted President Joseph F. Smith, who said "it is an important duty resting upon Saints who ... sustain the authorities of the Church, to do so not only by the lifting of the hand, the mere form, but in deed and in truth."

Brothers and sisters, it is a priviledge to be able to sustain God's chosen leaders. We must honor God for this priviledge by truly sustaining the Prophets and Apostles. Like every other aspect of the church, we can't just pretend, we must act in faith. We must follow their council.

Think about what you have learned and felt as you have read the conference talks from October. You, and I must act on the prompting we have received. That is how we honor Heavenly Father, and that is how we sustain the prophets.

As Elder Nelson said, we must remember that we do not vote about who will lead the church. God calls His chosen leaders and we sustain them.

I'll end this quick post with another quote that Elder Nelson shared. This one comes from President George Albert Smith. He said it 26 years before he was called to be the Prophet. "The obligation that we make when we raise our hands ... is a most sacred one. It does not mean that we will go quietly on our way and be willing that the prophet of the Lord shall direct this work, but it means ... that we will stand behind him; we will pray for him; we will defend his good name, and we will strive to carry out his instructions as the Lord shall direct."

Brothers and sisters, personal revelation is available for each of us. Just as we need to follow the council we receive from reading the scriputres, we also need to follow the council we receive from the Prophets of the Lord.

President Henry B. Eyring: Continuing Revelation

I am a convert to the church but thanks to an active extended family I have grown up hearing about the gospel and modern day prophets. I didn't become a member of the church until I was in college but because of this family history of faith, I never struggled with the idea of continuing revelation. In my mind it just made sense: Heavenly Father loves us so of course He would keep talking to us.  

Despite this acceptance of the gosple principle of continuing revelation, I must admit that I have always struggled to identify personal revelation, the type of revelation that is just for me. It is probably something I will have to work on my entire life, but I am thankful to know that revelation does happen and that I can develop my ability to recgonize it.

President Henry B. Eyring: Continuing Revelation

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One of the reasons I struggle with personal revelation is because in some respects I tend to look at the world in a very logical way. This was helpful in my acceptance of modern revelation because its existence made sense given my understanding and faith in who God is, a loving Heavenly Father. My logical lens can, however, present a challenge to understanding personal revelation because often times revelation doesn't always make sense. 

According to President Eyring, "we all know that human judgement and logical thinking will not be enough to get answers to the questions that matter most in life." This has proved very true for me.

President Eyring then went on to say that, "we need revelation from God. And we will need not just one revelation in a time of stress, but we need a constantly renewed stream. We need not just one flash of light and comfort, but we need the continuing blessing of communication with God." 

A reliance on revelation is crucial for members of the church. Truth be told, it is crucial for all of God's children. Yes, I realize I am saying that after just admitting I struggle to understand personal revelation. But I am working on it. You can to.

I realize that some people might question how crucial that reliance is. If you are one of them, I'd ask you to consider how this church began in modern times. As President Eyring reminded me today, our entire church exists on the premise of continued revelation and the fact that Joseph Smith received personal revelation. 

Now, I know that Heavenly Father could make His plan work no matter what. But I also know that He sent us down here to prepare for eternal life. Learning to rely on revelation is part of our education. Just as Joseph Smith had to learn to rely on personal revelation, so must we. Then we must use our agency to act on that council.

Thankfully President Eyring has some suggestions for how to become better at this challenging task. During his talk, President Eyring offered this guide for personal revelation: “Let thy bowels also be full of charity towards all men, and to the household of faith, and let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God; and the doctrine of the priesthood shall distil upon thy soul as the dews from heaven." He then went on to promise that, “the Holy Ghost shall be thy constant companion.”

I don't kow about you, but I want the Holy Ghost as my constant companion. I want to "wax strong in the presence of God."

Ok, there is one last truth about personal revelation that President Eyring acknowledged in his talk.Brother and sisters, we have to accept that sometimes the revelation we receive is not what we want to hear. It is, however, the word of God and we need to listen to it and act on His council even if it doesn't seem to make sense, and even if it is not what we wanted to do.

Ok, I want to end with a few of President Eyring's final words. "Heavenly Father hears your prayers. He loves you. He knows your name. Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and our Redeemer. He loves you beyond your ability to comprehend."

President Thomas S. Monson: Guided Safely Home

Today's talk is the last one from the Priesthood Session of General Conference. I can't believe I only have two more weeks before the challenge is complete.

I hope you've enjoyed reading with me. Despite the difficulties of fulfilling this challenge, I've enjoyed studying these talks. I know they've helped bring me closer to Heavenly Father. I hope they have done the same for you.

I don't know who out there is reading, but I would love to hear from you. Let me know what you think about these wonderful talks.

President Thomas S. Monson: Guided Safely Home

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President Monson began his talk with a story (I love his stories) about the German battleship named The Bismarck. You should check out the ship's history in the talk.

President Monson used this story to illustrate a point. He said, "like the vital rudder of a ship ... we have been provided a way to determine the direction we travel. The lighthouse of the Lord beckons to all as we sail the seas of life. Our purpose is to steer an undeviating course toward our desired goal- even the celestial kingdon of God. A man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder, never likely to reach home port." 

Brothers and Sisters, we must remember to keep this ultimate goal in heart and in mind. Nothing else matters but returning home and helping others to return as well. We can, we must, listen for and accept the Savior's invitation to follow Him. He is the example that will lead us home.

During his talk, President Monson made reference to a promise made by President N. Eldon Tanner, a former member of the first presidency. President Tanner said that, "nothing will bring greater joy and success than to live according to the teaching of the gospel." He then followed up his promise with a suggestion, I might even call it a commandment: "Be an example, be an influence for good."

We can do it brothers and sisters. Remember, Heavenly Father will help us. He is our father and He wants us to return to Him.

We must also remember that each of us has a work to do during our earthly life. We have our agency but we also have a responsibility to the Lord. Whether we complete our task or not, we will influence countless generations. I don't know about you, but I want to be a positive influence in the world and an example for Heavenly Father. As President Monson said, "We are strengthened by the truth that the greatest force in the world today is the power of God as it works through man." 

There was a lot more in President Monson's talk, but I will end with this quote from him. "With the rudder of faith guiding our passage ... we too will find our way safely home- home to God, to dwell with Him Eternally. That such may be so for each of us, I pray in the sacred name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, amen." 

I thank you Brother Monson, for your love and for your prayers. 

President Henry B. Eyring: The Preparatory Priesthood

President Henry B. Eyring: The Preparatory Priesthood

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What I appreciated most about this talk was the reminder that the Lord prepares the way. Any responsibility He gives us, be it employment, a calling, or a prompting, has and will be prepared for. It is comforting to know that if Heavenly Father asks me to do something I can trust that He will make sure I have what I need to get it done. Remembering this will help me be stronger, so I thank President Eyring and I thank Heavenly Father for the reminder.

In his talk, President Eyring said that Heavenly Father's entire plan is "filled with preparation." Think about it. We are living in a "preparatory state." According to President Eyring, Heavenly Father "prepared the earth for us to experience the tests and opportunities of mortality."

As I think about this now, I realize that every step of the Lord's plan is filled with preparation. We were prepared before we came to earth. Callings and promptings are prepared for. Every decision we make can be prepared for. Then, finally, the entire purpose of our earthly life is to prepare for an eternal life, "where we may live forever in families with God the Father and Jesus Christ."

The heavy use of preparation tells me one important truth: Heavenly Father wants us, wants all of us, each and every one, to return to live with Him.

If that doesn't tell you how much He loves you, I don't know what will.

President Eyring spent much of his talk discussing ways to help young Priesthood holders prepare for the future. The examples shared can help all of us as we strive to prepare for the future. Click on the link above and check out the whole talk. In the mean time, remember that two ways we can help people prepare for the future, including Priesthood responsibilities, are to (1) trust them, and (2) be an example.

Have a great night everyone. And Happy Thanksgiving.

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf: "Lord, Is It I?"

This was my first opportunity to study the talks shared in the Priesthood Session of General Conference. They have all been wonderful, but I especially liked Brother Uchtdorf’s words. I know that I need to turn my eye inward more often and reflect on how I can be a better disciple of Christ. This talk will help me do that.

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf: “Lord, Is It I?”

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President Uchtdorf began his talk with a reminder of an exchange that took place between Christ and His disciples. On this night Christ told his disciples that one of them would betray Him. What happened next is true evidence of the righteousness of those men. They did not doubt Christ, or question Him. Then, instead of accusing each other they each asked if they were the one who would betray the Savior. 

That is such amazing faith. I hope that I would behave in the same fashion. But I also know that in such an exchange it would be easy for fear to tempt someone, myself included, to look around and judge their companions instead of themselves. 

No one would want to be the betrayer. 

But it is also true that no one likes to feel as if they are not good enough. Satan uses this tendency of the natural man to manipulate us into making unrighteous judgments. 

We must resist this tendency. We must look to ourselves and cast out the beams in our own eyes before we pridefully assume the responsibility of removing the motes in another’s eyes

President Uchtdorf then went on to remind us of the danger of overestimating our actions (not our worth, for we are all children of God and worthy of His love). President Uchtdorf said, “it might not be so significant to overestimate how well we drive a car or how far we can drive a golf ball. But when we start believing that our contributions at home, at work, and at church are greater than they actually are, we blind ourselves to blessings and opportunities to improve ourselves in significant and profound ways.”  

I have to admit that this was difficult to read. I’ve always struggled with knowing how much to do. I can be stubbornly independent. I like to take care of myself. I always have. It is hard for me to accept help and consequently I am less inclined to provide certain types of help. I can’t always understand why someone wants helps with something because I would never ask for that type of help.

Still, I am thankful for this reminder. I want to do what I can to help others. That will require that I help them as they need to be helped, not as I want to help them. 

I’m sure I am not alone when I say that I want to live up to my responsibilities as a disciple of Christ. We can do it, brothers and sisters. 

The other danger the comes when we judge others’ motes instead of dealing with our own beams, is the tendency to think we don’t need the Savior and the blessings of the gospel because we can take care of ourselves. As President Uchtdorf said, we become blind to our own faults and we get trapped by pride.

Brothers and Sisters, we all need Heavenly Father, we all need the gospel. According to President Uchtdorf, “being able to see ourselves clearly is essential to our spiritual growth and well-being. If our weaknesses and shortcomings remain obscure in the shadows, then the redeeming power of the Savior cannot heal them and make them strengths.” 

I don’t know about you, but I want to be strong. I want to be filled with the Spirit of the Lord and I want to follow His will. 

President Uchtdorf’s advice is to approach Heavenly Father with a broken heart and a teachable mind. Brothers and sisters, we can do this. We can remove the beams from our eyes. Heavenly Father will help us. It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it.

Bishop Dean M. Davies: The Law of the Fast: A Personal Responsibility to Care for the Poor and Needy

Bishop Dean M. Davies: The Law of the Fast: A Personal Responsibility to Care for the Poor and Needy

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Bishop Davies began his talk by recounting the events that unfolded after a typhoon in the Philippines.  Many men, women, and children were in serious need and the church stepped up to help out. According to Bishop Davies, "inspired plans began to take shape to help restore members to acceptable living conditions and self-reliance."

I have been blessed, no that isn't the right word. I have been lucky to never experience such a trial as was faced by those men and women. I've never had to worry about where I would sleep tonight, or if there would be enough food and water to survive. This has been a blessing in my life but that doesn't mean that I am any better than those who have experienced such trials. That's why I can only claim to be lucky. (I suppose I simply need to remember that I was born at this time and in this place for a reason.)

I have, however, strived to become self reliant. I do this not only as an act of obedience, but for my own sense of security. The added blessing of being self reliant is that at times, and in certain circumstances, I have been in the position to act when someone else was in need.

According to Bishop Davies, "caring for the poor and needy is a fundamental gospel doctrine and an essential element in the eternal plan of salvation."

I don't know if this is just my problem, but I don't always know how to fulfil this doctrine. It is difficult to know when to help someone and how to help them. This is especially true when I hear about natural disasters around the world. I was thankful to continue reading Bishop Davies' words. He said, "the Lord has established the law of the fast and fast offerings to bless His people and to provide a way for them to serve those in need."

I've always had a lot of respect for men and women who make sacfirices to travel around the world helping those in need. Sometimes I want to join them, but I've never had the guts to follow in their footsteps. When natural disasters occur I want to help, but I also don't to be in the way. Instead, I try to keep my eyes open for such opportunities where I live. I sure I've missed some, even many, but after reading Bishop Davies' words I will try to be more observant and more intuned to the promptings of the Spirit. I want and need to do my part.

Brothers and sisters, we live in a world where many are in need. We can all help to ease the burdens that weigh down our eternal sibilings. Everyone's means are different, but everyone will be blessed for contributing what they can to help others. They might make this contirbution with their time and talents, or with a fast offering. Pray to know what you can do. I know that Heavenly Father will guide you.

Remeber the words of President Monson: "No member of the Church who has helped provide for those in need ever forgets or regrets the experience. Industry, thrift, self-reliance, and sharing with others are not new to us.”

Elder Craig Christensen : I Know These Things of Myself

We have been told for years that we should learn about the gospel "line upon line," and that we can develop our testimonies "precept upon precept." Brothers and Sisters, Heavenly Father is wating for us. We are His children and He wants us to return home. If we approach Him with an open heart He will respond to our prayers. 

Over the last few years I have come to believe that if we come to Heavenly Father with an open heart He will give each of us "something" to rely on during the storms of life, something that will be the foundation of our testimony and that will help us keep our faith despite the many voices and doubts that fill the world. It we let it, that one thing will become many and we will be able to stand up and say "I know these things of myself."

Elder Craig Christensen : I Know These Things of Myself

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As Elder Christensen began his talk he made reference to a promise made by President Monson: "Whether you are 12 or 112—or anywhere in between—you can know for yourself that the gospel of Jesus Christ is true."

Brothers and Sisters, President Monson spoke the truth when he shared that promise. We truly can know that the gospel is true we just have to be willing to ask with an open heart. It is vital that we do ask because we can't rely on the testimonies of others. We have to discover for ourselves the truth of the gospel and we have to do the work to strengthen our own testimonies. 

We are all children and we are constantly learning so it's ok if we have to rely on the testimonies of others for a while. Remember, one of our responsibilities as children of God is to share our testimony with our brothers and sisters, to help them find and develop their own. But we can't rey on them permanently. 

Think for a moment about what Elder Christensen said: "personal experiences with the Lord prepared Nephi for the adversity and challenges he would soon face. They enabled him to stand strong even when others in his family were struggling. He could do this because he had learned for himself and he knew for himself. He had been blessed with his own testimony." 

We should all strive to be that strong, to have testimonies that won't flinch even in our darkest times. Remember, faith doesn't have to be complicated, we just want it to become strong. As Elder Christensen said, "this Church quite literally was founded on the principle that anyone—including a 14-year-old farm boy—can “ask of God” and receive an answer to his prayers."

I'll leave you with one final thought. Over the years of my membership in the church I have at times struggled with my testimony, everyone does as some point. But I have always, always, felt stronger and more confident about my testimony when I have stood up and shared it. 

So, I offer this challenge to you: read, pray, and fast to know the truth, then get up and share your testimony with someone else. It will help you and hopefuly it will help them.

Elder Quentin L. Cook: Choose Wisely

Elder Quentin L. Cook: Choose Wisely

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Early in his talk, Elder Cook reminded us of a lesson recently taught by Presiden Monson: "decisions determine destiny." The purpose of his talk seemed to be a desire to warn us against rationalizations and distracttions, and to encourage us to make and seriously commit to accomplishing eternal goals.

Like Elder Cook, I have always had an appreciation for goals. I tend to get bored and frustrated with my life if I am not working toward something. Having goals helps me to stay fulfilled. With that being said, I know that I need to be more consistent and thoughtful in how I select and work toward accomplishing my goals. Elder Cook shared this question as a way for assessing a goal: "Will this make you a better person?"

He then went on to quote Elder Oaks who encouraged church memvers to "distinguish between 'good, better, and best.'"This is a reference I return to often. I know that like you, there are a lot of opportunities available to me. There are countless ways that I can choose to spend my time. I know that I need to strive to use my time wisely and to spend it on activities that can be classified as the "best."

People are going to have different opinions about what the best way to spend their time and energy is. Ultimately, however, our purpose is to return to our Heavenly Father and to help our brothers and sisters return there as well.

Thank you Elder Cook for this wonderful reminder. I will continue to follow your council and do my best to make the "best" use of my time and talents.

Elder L. Tom Perry: Finding Lasting Peace and Building Eternal Families

I don't know about the rest of you, but peace is something I am constantly looking for. My life always seems to be crazy and I always feel overwhelmed with all the many things there are to do. But I know in my heart that peace can be found in this gospel. I have felt the Spirit's peaceful presence and so can you.

Elder L. Tom Perry: Finding Lasting Peace and Building Eternal Families

Elder Perry began this talk with a reference to his mother. He mentioned notebooks that she kept and in which she prepared Relief Society lessons. He shared several of the quotes she recorded. You should check them out.

He then took some time dicussing the parable of the tares in the wheat. In this parable (Matthew 13) the householder is apprached by his servants because they have discovered that an "enemy" has placed tares in the wheat. They want to cut the wheat down and destroy it. The householder tells them that instead of destroying the wheat, they should wait until it is ready to harvest and the tares can be removed without causing damage.

When I read this parable I can't help being reminded of the idea that we have to live in the world, but not be of the world. Life is hard and we are constantly bombarded with negative messages and voices. I know that I have to stay strong despite these negtive influences. I know that it is possible because I also know that Heavenly Father is helping me. Like the householder, He will wait for me to grow so that that tares can be safely removed and I can return to live with him. In the mean time, I have to continue to grow, surrounded by the dangerous tares.

Brothers and Sisters, stay strong. Your may be surrounded and bombarded by negative influences, but Heavenly Father is still watching out for you. He will protect you.

One of the other issues that Elder Perry spoke about was the importance of family. He said that "as members of the Church, we have the responsibility to preserve and protect the family as the basic unit of society." He then spoke about the powerful infleunce mothers have on their children, reminding us that "the decisions made by the women of this generation will be eternal in their consequences."

I have already told you that I am not a mother, but I still found comfort in Elder Perry's words because he reminded me that I don't have to become a CEO or a best selling author to be successful. I can fulfill my purpose and have an impact through small and daily acts of nuturing those around me, just as a tired and overworked mother nutures her children.

I would like to end by thanking all of the wonderful mothers, and fathers, who sacrifice so much for their children. You are appreciated. You are loved. You will be blessed for all that you have done.

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland: Are We Not All Beggars?

As we move through the holiday season I know that many of us will be busy with parties and presents. But we, meaning me, would do well to remember that every person on this earth is a child of God. This year I will strive to keep service and love in my heart. I will strive to recognize those in need and to do what I can to fulfill that need and ease their burdens.

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland: Are We Not All Beggars?

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I don't know about the rest of you, but sometimes I look at all the problems that exists in our world and I become overwhelmed. There just seems to be too much to do and too many people to help. The task seems impossible. 

Elder Holland's words in this talk were a wonderful reminder that I don't have to do everything, I just have to continue to do what I can. 

While speaking of Mother Theresa, Elder Holland said this: "A journalist once questioned Mother Teresa of Calcutta about her hopeless task of rescuing the destitute in that city. He said that, statistically speaking, she was accomplishing absolutely nothing. This remarkable little woman shot back that her work was about love, not statistics. Notwithstanding the staggering number beyond her reach, she said she could keep the commandment to love God and her neighbor by serving those within her reach with whatever resources she had. 'What we do is nothing but a drop in the ocean,' she would say on another occasion. 'But if we didn’t do it, the ocean would be one drop less [than it is].' Soberly, the journalist concluded that Christianity is obviously not a statistical endeavor. He reasoned that if there would be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over the ninety and nine who need no repentance, then apparently God is not overly preoccupied with percentages."

Brothers and Sisters, I know that our church likes to keep records, but I also know that the gospel is not about statistics. It is about each of us doing what we can to make a differenece in other people's lives.

As I move forward with this challenge, and with my life, I will strive to be more forgiving of others and of myself. I know that everyone makes mistakes, that is part of the learning process. Eveyone needs to be forgiven and I can do my part by being willing to forgive others. 

Elder Eduardo Gabarret: Yes, Lord, I will Follow Thee

One change that occured during October's conference was the fact that not all of the talks were given in English. Several of the Elders took immediate advantage of this opportunity to present their message in their native language.

For me this was a beautiful change. I am not bilingual. I have studied both Spanish and Italian, but languages are not my talent. English is the only language I can claim to know. Despite this barrier, I truly felt the spirit when Elder Gabarret and others spoke in their native language. It was a wonderful reminder that the gospel is true in every language and that the Spirit can overcome any barrier.

I am thankful for those who chose to speak in their native tongue, and for the many translators who helped us understand the beautiful and spiritual truths that they shared.

Elder Eduardo Gabarret: Yes, Lord, I will Follow Thee

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Elder Gabarret began his talk by sharing an experience from his time as a missionary. 

"During my first month in the mission, the zone leaders held an activity to demonstrate a gospel principle. Each missionary in the zone was blindfolded, and we were told that we were to follow a path leading to the cultural hall. We were to follow the voice of one particular leader, a voice we heard before starting to walk. However, we were warned that during the journey, we would hear several voices that would try to confuse us and get us to stray from the path."

Despite listening carefully to the voices that surrounded him, when Elder Gabarret took of his blindfold, he discovered that he had followed the wrong voice. 

Brothers and Sisters, I know that many, if not all, of us have been deceived by false voices. There are so many voices shouting for our attention that it can be difficult to know which voice to listen to. We all make mistakes. Thankfully we can all be forgiven. The only advice I can give you is the reminder that every good thing comes from God. If the voice, the prompting, you hear is advising you to do good you can trust it.

Elder Gabarret also reminded us that we must chose to follow the Lord. We must chose to come unto Him, to follow His example, and to walk with Him as we progress through life. Such decisions will require sacrifice and commitment, but they will bless our life each and every day. 

Elder Jorg Klebingat: Approaching the Throne of God with Confidence

Today I'm going to jump straight into my thoughts about the talk.

Elder Jorg Klebingat: Approaching the Throne of God with Confidence

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Brothers and sisters, it is an unfortunate truth that Satan lies. He wants to get to us, and at us, and lies are a good way to do it. According to Elder Klebingat, Satan seeks access to our heart to tell us lies, "lies that Heavenly Father is disappointed in you, that the Atonement is beyond your reach, that there is no point in even trying, that everyone else is better than you, that you are unworthy, and a thousand variations of that same evil theme."

We cannot believe these lies. If we allow them entrance into ours minds, they will undermine our faith and our self confidence. Do not give Satan power over you. Replace his lies with the beautiful truths of the gospel and allow the Atonement to strengthen your heart. 

Elder Klebingat offers 6 suggestions for how to do this. 
     (1) Take responsibility for your own spiritual well-being.
     (2) Take responsibility for your own physical well-being. 
     (3) Embrace voluntary, wholehearted obedience as part of your life.
     (4) Become really, really good at repenting thoroughly and quickly.
     (5) Become really, really good at forgiving.
     (6) Accept trials, setbacks, and “surprises” as part of your mortal experience.

I know that finding and keeping your spiritual confidence can be very, extremely, difficutl. But, it is worth the effort. The important thing to remember is that you are not alone in that effort. Heavenly Father does and will support your every effort to strenghten your faith and self confidence.  As Elder Klebingat's title suggests, we can approach the thrown of God with confidence. 

I would like to end with a final quote from Elder Klebingat's talk. 

"No matter what your current status, the very moment you voluntarily choose honest, joyful, daily repentance by striving to simply do and be your very best, the Savior’s Atonement envelops and follows you, as it were, wherever you go."

Tad R. Callister: Parents: The Prime Gospel Teachers of Their Children

In my opinion, children are one of the greatest blessings a couple can receive. I say this with some degree of saddness because I am neither a wife or a mother. Those are blessings I have yet to receive. Despite my childless state, I still appreciate lessons about parenting because I want to prepare myself to be a great mother when the opportunity does arrive, and because I work with teen parents and I wish to help them become the best parents they can be.

As a teacher, I see every day the impact parents have on their children. I always have, and I always will, testify of the great importance and influence righteous parent can have on their children. There is little that I can do as a teacher to establish the foundation my students will rely on for the rest of their lives. I can try to strengthen those foundations and I can provide my students with opportunities to grow, but it is their parents who established the vital foundation that they will build on for the rest of their lives.

Tad R. Callister: Parents: The Prime Gospel Teachers of Their Children

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One thing that I appreciated about Brother Callister's talk was his inference that being a parent is a calling. I do not point this out because I am not a mother, but because I truly believe that being a parent is the most important calling a person can have. According to Brother Callister, the duty of each parent is to teach their children, "the doctrine of repentance, faith in Christ the Son of the living God, and of baptism and the gift of the Holy Ghost."

I know that when I become a parent I will join the ranks of the many others who are responsible for teaching these beautiful truths. But I also know that I do not have to wait until I am a parent to prepare for this responsibility or to start acting on this responsibility. I can, and I should, start now. 


The greatest teacher I know is Jesus Christ and He taught by example. So I will strive to do the same.

So, while I wait (not entirely patiently) for the opportunity to be a wife and mother, I will strive to live a righteous life and to be an example to those I encounter every day. Hopefully I can be a blessing in their lives just as they are a blessing in my life. 

Elder Neil L. Andersen: Joseph Smith

When I started this challenge I didn't realize how hard it was going to be. It's my own fault. I've been lazy and I need to break that habit and develop a new one. It feels so difficult because it is so easy to get busy and caught up in my everyday life. I have work and other responsibilities to attend to and, unfortunately, I sometimes allow myself to forget to devote time to my relationship with Heavenly Father. I intend to correct this practice. I do need to honor my responsibilites to work but my greatest loyalty should be to my Heavenly Father. The only way I can express this loyalty is through my obedience to His commandments and respect for His scriptures. That requires time and commitment. 

I know I can do it, and I know you can do it. Keep reading people. Studying the modern day scriptures that are the conference talks will bring you closer to Heavenly Father. They will, and can, strengthen your relationship with Him, if you let them.

Elder Neil L. Andersen: Joseph Smith

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I am not even close to being a church history expert but I love learning about Joseph Smith, and his wife Emma.  A few years ago I actually went on a church history trip with my best friend Amanda. The locations we visited spanned Joseph's life from his birth to his death. It was an amazing experience and I can't recommend it enough.

Joseph and Emma endured much but they lived their faith and accomplished great things. They are wonderful examples for us all. 

In his talk, Elder Andersen informs us that when Joseph was first visited by the angel Moroni, he was told that his name would "be had for good and evil among all nations, kindreds, and tongues." 

I would like to take this opportunity to testify that Joseph Smith was a Prophet of God. My experiences on that church history trip were powerful. I knelt in prayer in the Sacred Grove and I will never forget what I felt there. I know that he was a Prophet of God and I can never unknow it. Nor do I want to.

Now you must ask youself what you know? what you believe about Joseph Smith. According to Elder Anderson, "each believer needs a spiritual confirmation of the divine mission and character of the Prophet Joseph Smith." 

Elder Andersen goes on to say that, "a testimony of the Prophet Joseph Smith can come differently to each of us. It may come as you kneel in prayer, asking God to confirm that he was a true prophet. It may come as you read the Prophet’s account of the First Vision. A testimony may distill upon your soul as you read the Book of Mormon again and again. It may come as you bear your own testimony of the Prophet or as you stand in the temple and realize that through Joseph Smith the holy sealing power was restored to the earth. With faith and real intent, your testimony of the Prophet Joseph Smith will strengthen. The constant water balloon volleys from the sidelines may occasionally get you wet, but they need never, never extinguish your burning fire of faith."

Brothers and Sisters, you can gain a testimony of the divine mission of Joseph Smith. You just have to be willing to sincerly ask and pray for a testimony of his work. 

Elder Dallin H. Oaks: Loving Others and Living with Differences

My posts are on time, but the writing of them was a bit delayed this weekend. I was out of town visiting my family and quickly got out of my scripture reading habit. I suppose that is understandable, but I hope not to repeat it the next time I’m on a family vacation. 

Anyways, on to today’s talk.

Elder Dallin H. Oaks: Loving Others and Living with Differences

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Elder Oaks began with a quote made by President Monson last April: “love is the very essence of the gospel, and Jesus Christ is our Exemplar. His life was a legacy of love.”

Reading this talk, I felt thankful for the reminder about this very basic principle. Love truly is the foundation of the gospel. Our Heavenly Parents love us, our Savior and brother Jesus Christ loves us, and our earthly family and friends love us. We would do well to love them back.

While encouraging us to show love, Elder Oaks admits that sometimes it is hard. The world is far from perfect, but we must live in it. That is part of our responsibility as disciples of Christ. 

As we do our best to live in the world, and not be of the world, we need to remember this: “For verily, verily I say unto you, he that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another.” 

This passage from 3 Nephi is a stern reminder that we cannot let contention rule our lives. Jesus Christ is our Savior and example and he was the Prince of Peace. 

Brothers and sisters, I know that it is difficult to live in the world and not become like it. But I also know that we must, and that we can, face this challenge. As you move forward in faith, as we move forward in faith, just remember that love is the foundation of the gospel. 

Each of us will meet people who will try to challenge our faith. We can, and must, stand up for what we believe, but as we do so we can follow the Savior’s example by showing loving-kindness. Remember, we are all children of God. We need to take care of each other. We need to love one another.

Saturday Afternoon: The Sustaining of Church Officers

The Sustaining of Church Officers 

This is not exactly a talk, but I believe it deserves attention. The sustaining of church officers is our opportunity to stand up in support of the wonderful men and women who lead this church. It is our opportunity to raise our arms and say, “Yes, I believe in you. Yes, I will follow your council.”

In Matthew 7:16 it reads, “Ye shall know them by their fruits.” The talks shared by these men and women are the fruits of their labor. I testify that as you read and ponder the talks presented in this and future conferences, you can and will strengthen you testimony of the gospel, you can and will come to know God, your Heavenly Father. 

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf: Receiving a Testimony of Light and Truth

Have you ever wondered if your testimony was good enough? strong enough? true enough?

When I encounter people dealing with extreme circumstances, I am usually either amazed by their faith or understanding of their lack of faith. A lot of bad things happen in this world. I can understand why this leads some people to question the existence of God. But I hope they will let it bring them closer to Him.

God does exist. He is our Heavenly Father and He is watching over us every minute of our lives. That doesn’t, however, mean that bad things won’t happen. Yesterday’s talk discussed the importance of agency, a gift that each of us has. Heavenly Father allows us to have the blessing of agency and that means He has to let us make our own decisions, including bad decisions that can, and do, effect other people. 

One of  the most important decisions we can make is to build and strengthen our testimonies. 

In today’s talk I had, we have, the blessing of President Uchtdorf’s thoughts about receiving a testimony. 

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf: Receiving a Testimony of Light and Truth

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President Uchtdorf began his talk with a reminder that in the history of the world, mankind’s understanding of the universe has changed. 

He said that “before mankind had instruments powerful enough to gather celestial light and bring these galaxies (distant and previously unknown galaxies) into visibility, we did not believe such a thing was possible. The immensity of the universe didn’t suddenly change, but our ability to see and understand this truth changed dramatically. And with the greater light, mankind was introduced to glorious vistas we had never before imagined.” 

Brothers and Sisters, there are many people who want proof of the existence of God. They refuse to believe until that evidence is provided. To be perfectly honest, I do not know when or if we will reach the point when we are able to scientifically prove that God exists. I suspect that the second coming will arrive before that point. We can, however, find and understand the truth of His existence. 

President Uchtdorf offered this promise: “the purpose of my remarks is to proclaim the joyful message that God Himself- the Lord of Hosts who knows all truth- has given His children the promise that they can know the truth for themselves.” 

That is truly a wonderful promise. 

It does not, however, come without a few expectations. If we truly want to know that God exists and that this is His gospel, there are a few things we need to do.

1. Search the word of God, the scriptures.
2. Ponder and strive to believe. 
3. Pray with a sincere heart. 
4. This might be the hardest one: obey God and live His gospel. 

Brother Uchtdorf had this to say about that last requirement. “When you are trying to verify the truth of gospel principles, you must first live them. Put gospel doctrine and Church teachings to the test in your own life. Do it with real intent and enduring faith in God.”

Brothers and Sisters, that is why I have taken this scripture reading challenge, to strengthen my testimony of the gospel and my relationship with deity by living His gospel. It hasn’t been easy. In the ten days since I started the challenge I've had several distractions pop up that could’ve stopped me from meeting this challenge. But I was determined and I have had Heavenly Father’s help and that has made all the difference.

I will leave you tonight with one final quote from President Uchtdorf. “Some may say that the steps are too hard or that they are not worth the effort. But I suggest that this personal testimony of the gospel and the Church is the most important thing you can earn in this life. It will not only bless and guide you during this life, but it will also have a direct  bearing on your life throughout eternity.”

Thank you President Utchdoft, for these wonderful and inspired words. 

Elder D. Todd Christofferson: Free Forever, to Act for Themselves

Elder D.Todd Christofferson: Free Forever, to Act for Themselves

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One of the greatest blessings that Heavenly Father has given us is the blessing of Agency. It is also a great responsibility. But it is one Heavenly Father knows that we can live up to. 

You are not alone, Brothers and Sisters. Let Heavenly Father help you.

Early in his talk, Elder Christofferson reminds us that agency is part of Heavenly Father’s plan. “But God intends that His children should act according to the moral agency He has given them, ‘that every man may be accountable for his own sins in the day of judgment.’ It is His plan and His will that we have the principle decision-making role in our own life’s drama. God will not live our lives for us nor control us as if we were his puppets, as Lucifer once proposed to do”

Think about that for a moment. We are supposed to be the principle decision makers in our lives. That’s a pretty amazing thought. Our agency, our right and responsibility to make decisions is part of the reason we are here. It is also the way we are able to return  home. 

During his talk, Elder Christofferson said the following: “the gospel of Jesus Christ opens the path to what we may become. Through the Atonement of Jesus Christ and His grace, our failures to live the celestial law perfectly and consistently in mortality can be erased and we are enabled to develop a Christlike character. Justice demands, however, that none of this happen without our willing agreement and participation. It has  ever been so. Our very presence on earth as physical beings is the consequence of a choice each of us made to participate in our Father’s plan. Thus, salvation is certainty not the result of divine whim, but neither does it happen by divine whim alone.”

Brothers and Sisters, we must use our agency and choose to allow the Atonement to work in our lives. Heavenly Father’s plan is for each of us to return to Him. But He loves us not to force His plans upon us.

Remember, none of us has to be perfect. That is impossible. But we can each chose to repent of our sins. We can chose to accept Christ’s atonement and begin our journey back to Heavenly Father’s presence. 

Make the choice. Chose to act for yourself and, as the title of Elder Christofferson’s talk suggests, chose to be free forever. 

Elder Chi Hong (Sam) Wong: Rescue in Unity

It is amazing what can happen when you follow through on a prompting. For the last nine days I have followed through on the challenge to read the modern day scriptures that were shared during October’s General Conference. Even yesterday, despite its many frustrations, I read and reflected on one of the conference talks. 

Today, I was struggling with back pain. I had to cancel a few obligations in the afternoon because I needed to stay home and let my back relax and the heating pad do it's job. When I opened my scripture app and pulled up today’s conference talk, I had no idea what the talk was going to be about. 

It was exactly what I needed to hear: an account of the faithful servants who cared for the man palsy.

Now, my back struggles are no where near the circumstances that the man with palsy faced, but I still appreciated the little reminder that Heavenly Father is watching out for me and that He knows what I am going through. If He can help and heal the man with palsy, He can certainly help me deal with some back pain and the frustrations of being stuck at home on a beautiful afternoon. 

Elder Chi Hong (Sam) Wong: Rescue in Unity

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The account of the man with Palsy appears in Mark 2:1-5. It details the service of four people who cared enough for this man to make sure he would be healed by Christ. In the story, the four are unable to gain access to the home where Christ is staying because of the huge crowds. They literally cannot get through the doors because there are so many people blocking the way. In order to help their friend, these four had to get him onto the roof of the house and then cut a whole in the roof so that they could lower the man with palsy down into the house and into Christ’s presence. 

Talk about a wonderful determination to serve.

In his talk, Elder Wong points out that these four would have had to work in Unity. “The rescue assignment needed everyone working together. At the crucial moment it would take careful coordination to lower the man with palsy from the roof. The four people would have to work in unity and in harmony. There could not be any discord among the four. They would have to lower the man with palsy at the same pace. If someone released the rope faster that the other three, the man would fall out of his bed. He could not hold on by himself due to his weakened condition.” 

As I consider these words now, I begin to think about how important it is for families to work in unity. Husband and wife, parent and child, they must all work together toward the same purpose. When they do, amazing things can happen. 

I am so thankful for the wonderful family that Heavenly Father has blessed me with. I love them with all my heart, even if I am not always good at showing that. They love and support me and I want to be better at returning that love and support. I know that my life would not be the same without them. 

Sister Cheryl A. Esplin: The Sacrament - A Renewal for the Soul

I have to admit, I was a little distracted today. I kept thinking about all the little stressors that are a regular part of life. I wasn’t worried about anything too serious, but all these little things kept bothering me. I know I’m not the only one this happens to. But it is still more than a little annoying. I kept telling myself to relax when stupid things happened that made me more frustrated then they should have. 

As opposed to immediately turning to the scriptures, or prayer, I turned on the television and tried to relax. I recorded a cool Jane Austen spin off movie the other day, and I decided to watch it instead of doing something productive with my time. (It was called Murder at Pemberley for anyone who wants to know). I enjoyed the movie, but when it was over I still had all of my frustrations to deal with, as well as the additional frustration of not having had a productive afternoon. 

I think we, meaning me, get trapped in these loops. We have to decide to stop them and to refocus. Its not always easy, but Heavenly Father can help us. He will help us. We just have to let His spirit into our hearts. 

Eventually, with His help, I motivated myself to get back to work and to at least get my conference challenge completed for the day. It was actually a really good talk and a wonderful reminder of the love and mercy of Heavenly Father. Here are a few thoughts about it.

Sister Cheryl A. Esplin: The Sacrament- A Renewal for the Soul

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Sister Esplin starts her talk with a question. She asks how the Sacrament can be a “truly spiritual experience, a holy communion, a renewal for the soul?”

I appreciated her reminder that this can happen. but in order for it to happen, we have to actively listen to the Sacrament prayers. Sister Esplin reminds us that we need to use this weekly communion to recommit ourselves to our covenants.

We all make mistakes. No one is perfect. But each Sunday we can partake of the Sacrament and start again. 

She then made reference to a challenge that, if I am honest, is not easy for me. Sister Esplin quoted President Henry B. Eyring who said “that means we must see ourselves as His. We will put Him first in our lives. We will want what He wants rather than what we want or what the world teaches us to want.” 

Understanding and following Heavenly Father’s will has never been easy for me. I’m not a rebel and I don’t go out and commit horrible sins, but I do make mistakes and I do struggle to trust the promptings His spirit sends me. 

Usually, when I first receive a prompting, I begin to doubt that I have understood it correctly. Then, I begin to think that the prompting was just my own subconscious, a secret wish or desire. Sometimes I can get caught up in a loop of justification and doubt.  Before long the initial prompting has been forgotten and the opportunity to exercise obedience has been missed.

I am working on this. I will continue to work on it, as well as a lot of other things, for the rest of my life. But I haven’t given up. I know Heavenly Father is watching over me, and I know that He is helping me. 

Like Sister Esplin suggested, I will return to church each Sabbath and partake of the Sacrament again. I will continue to renew my covenants so that I can become closer to my Heavenly Father, both in spirt and in will.